The Power Of Patience And Tenacity Of Purpose

By Debra Nelson


The history of mankind is littered with individuals that had a lasting impact upon society. There were legendary fighters, leaders, scientists and artists that all changed the way humans think for centuries to come. Many academics wondered whether all these people shared certain traits and whether there are actually traits that are vital to success. It turns out that there are. Among other important characteristics, patience and tenacity of purpose seems to be the vital ingredients of success.

Patient people do not expect immediate success. They know how to deal with difficulties and interference without losing their tempers. They focus on present challenges and they do not fret about looming potential problems. They do not allow their emotions to influence their actions or thoughts and they never blame other people or circumstances for their difficulties. Patient people are not surprised by adversity. They anticipate it and they deal with it.

Many people think that a patient person is one that simply wait for things to happen. This is most certainly not what being patient is all about. Being patient is not about being idle or inactive. Consider the example of a patient farmer. He cannot sit and wait in the hope that a crop will grow. He has to prepare the fields, sow his seeds and nurture the plants. Only then can he patiently wait for results.

A person that is tenacious pursues a specific goal single mindedly. He does not allow himself to become distracted by other people or by difficulties. He believes in his goals and he pursues those goals in the full expectation that he will achieve them. In the process he will never give up or lose hope. His determination is steadfast and nothing will sway him from his course.

Tenacious people are often viewed as stubborn idealists. This is not the true meaning of being tenacious. True tenacious people have very clear and achievable goals and they simply mean to achieve those goals regardless of circumstances or any other interfering factor. They are not fools and they never pursue unrealistic goals. They believe in themselves and they firmly believe in the fact that they will prevail.

The combination of being both tenacious and patient is a very powerful one indeed. Such a person will set very specific goals and perform all the actions necessary to achieve that goal. He will deal with setbacks calmly and rationally, never losing faith in his ability to achieve what he set out to achieve. In combination, these two characteristics define a person that is, on the one hand, single minded but also, on the other hand, able to deal with problems.

Far too many people think that it is not possible to develop new character traits, or even to discard weaknesses. This is not true. Humans are amazingly adaptable. Anyone with the will to change can learn new traits and get rid of bad habits. One can learn how to become patient and to be more tenacious. There is a lot of help in this regard. Many websites and books dedicated to self improvement focus on these issues.

One should never confuse a truly tenacious person with a foolhardy one without any sense. Neither should one think that a patient person is someone simply waiting for a miracle. These people work hard at achieving their goals and they do not allow anything to deter them from their ultimate purpose.




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